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Admonitions to Children

Honor For Parents

  • Children are encouraged to reverence their parents (having a deep respect for them and placing a high value upon them) as true examples of believers, that they may partake in the promise of long days upon the land (the Land of Promise in Christ's kingdom). [Apoc of Paul 20] When children honor their parents, they're also honoring their heavenly parents (the Father Ahayah and the Mother Rụwaka Kwadoshi) through the Lord and Everlasting father Yache Christ.

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Eph 6:1-3

Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

  • The promise for keeping this commandment was given in the law:

Exo 20:12

Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which Ahayah thy Alahayim giveth thee.

  • Honor your parents having a deep respect for them, yet do not surrender your virtue towards your heavenly parents to transgress the law for your earthly parent's sake.

4Mac 2:10

10. For the Law ranks above affection for parents, so that a man may not 11. for their sakes surrender his virtue..

  • There may be instances where you have to uphold the law (even if your parent doesn't agree) to please them in truth unto their edification as their brother or sister in Christ hoping they will be won over by your good works even though they are your parents since we are all brethren in Christ the Everlasting father of us all.

Rom 15:2-3  

Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification. 3 For even Christ pleased not himself...

  • Obeying parents in the Lord in all things to do the upright things they ask according to the law will keep children safe and be well pleasing unto the Lord who gave them the parents honor over the children.

Pro 6:20

My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

Col 3:20

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

Sir 3:1

Hear me your father, O children, and doe thereafter, that ye may be safe.
Sir 3:2

For the Lord hath given the father honour over the children, and hath confirmed the authority of the

mother over the sons.

  • (The Father is honored over his children so he is to be revered and the mother has authority over the sons up until they are at the age of manhood (15yrs old), while the daughters are under the authority of their fathers. The daughters honor their mother indeed as the law says, yet they are cleaved unto their father being under his authority until they're given in marriage if their father is lead to do so. Daughters are also under the power of the sons, even as Yache's sisters are under his power, that they may learn to reverence their future husband as a brother. This is also for the sons to learn to nurture and guide their sisters to keep the commands of their parents leading their sister in the ways their parents would have them to go. This will enable the son walk according to the will of Alahayim through Lord Yache having obeyed his own parents in his upbringing. He will also learn to love his wife as a sister when he comes of age along with being taught gentleness and affectionate love by his mother's instruction as she learned from her upbringing and relationship with her husband. All these things will prove a blessing in the life of a child who honors their parents.)

Sir 3:3-7

Who so honoureth his father, maketh an atonement for his sins. And he that honoureth his mother, is as one that layeth up treasure. Who so honoureth his father, shall have joy of his own children, and when he maketh his prayer, he shall be heard. He that honoureth his father, shall have a long life, and he that is obedient unto the Lord, shall be a comfort to his mother. He that feareth the Lord, will honour his father, and will do service unto his parents, as to his masters.

  • The children serve their parents in the Lord as their masters, even as Yache was subject to his parent as an example of righteousness. [Luke 2:51]

Gal 4:1

Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be master of all;

Luk 2:51

And he went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject unto them: but his mother kept all these sayings in her heart.

  • When one has unbelieving parents who are not in the Lord, one still does service unto them in upright things as one's master, yet one has to be mindful not to transgress the law for their sakes to maintain one's virtue towards Alahayim. Abram honored his father (who was an unbeliever at the first) speaking respectfully to him with entreaties though he was unwilling to partake in idolatry to maintain his virtue for an example. None the less, he honored him by calling him "lord H113" which shows the children reverence their fathers by such titles. In each respective language, there are also other respectful terms for one's parent as well of course. 

Jasher 11:20.

And Abram said to his father, my lord shew them to me I pray thee. And Terah brought Abram into the chamber of the inner court, and Abram saw, and behold the whole room was full of alahayims of wood and stone, twelve great images and others less than they without number.

As children who believe in Alahayim and the Gospel of Yache Christ, honoring parents whether they are believers or not is important to receive the promise given and not partake in punishments for not honoring them:

Children that don't honor father and mother and separate from them on their own accord.

Apocalypse of Peter Chapter 11

[1] And there shall be another place, very high... [2] There shall be a furnace and a brazier wherein shall burn fire. The fire that shall burn shall come from one end of the brazier). The men and women whose feet slip, shall go rolling down into a place where is fear. And again while the fire that is prepared floweth, they mount up and fall down again and continue to roll down. Thus shall they be tormented forever. These are they that honoured not their father and mother and of their own accord withheld (withdrew) themselves from them. Therefore shall they be chastised eternally.

Those that don't obey parents or honor the elderly

Pro 30:17

The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.

Apocalypse of Peter 11

Furthermore the angel Ezrael shall bring children and maidens to show them those that are tormented. They shall be chastised with pains, with hanging up (?) and with a multitude of wounds which flesh-devouring birds shall inflict upon them. These are they that boast themselves (trust) in their sins, and obey not their parents and follow not the instruction of their fathers, and honour not them that are more aged than they.

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                  Admonitions for Children

Sir 3:8-16

Honour thy father and mother, both in word and deed, that a blessing may come upon thee from them. For the blessing of the father establisheth the houses of children, but the curse of the mother rooteth out foundations. 10 Glory not in the dishonor of thy father, for thy fathers dishonor is no glory unto thee. 11 For the glory of a man, is from the honour of his father, and a mother in dishonor, is a reproach to the children. 12 My son, help thy father in his age, and grieve him not as long as he liveth. 13 And if his understanding fail, have patience with him, and despise him not, when thou art in thy full strength. 14 For the relieving of thy father shall not be forgotten: and instead of sins it shall be added to build thee up. 15 In the day of thine affliction it shall be remembered, thy sins also shall melt away, as the ice in ye faire warm weather. 16 He that forsaketh his father, is as a blasphemer, and he that angreth his mother, is cursed of Alahayim.

Sir 7:27-28

Honour thy father with thy whole heart, and forget not the sorrows of thy mother. 28 Remember that thou wast begot of them, and how canst thou recompense them the things that

they have done for thee?
Sir 22:9-10

If children live honestly, and have wherewithal, they shall cover the baseness of their parents. 10 But children being haughty through disdain, and want of nurture, doe stain the nobility of their kindred.

Pro 23:24

The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.

I Clem 2:7-8

Let our children be partakers of the instruction which is in Christ: Let them learn how lowliness of mind prevaileth with Alahayim, what power chaste love hath with Alahayim, how the fear of Him is good and great and saveth all them that walk therein in a pure mind with holiness.

Christ's Admonition to His Children

  • Yache is speaking through Solomon, giving us the advice that he received from Ahayah and the Holy Spirit, so that we may be well instructed as he was:

Pro 4:1-9

Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding. For I give you good doctrine, forsake ye not my law. 3 For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother. He taught me also, and said unto me, Let thine heart retain my words: keep my commandments, and live. Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth. 6 Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee 7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding 8 Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her. 9 She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee. 10 Hear, O my son, and receive my sayings; and the years of thy life shall be many.

  • Seeking after Wisdom by fearing Alahayim to keep the commandments and getting Understanding by departing from all evil will cause our life to be many years in the kingdom with Alahayim and Christ.

Job 28:28

And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding.

  • Christ Yache the Lord also gave us his advice too.

Pro 4:11-17

I have taught thee in the way of wisdom; I have led thee in right paths. 12 When thou goest, thy steps shall not be straightened; and when thou runnest, thou shalt not stumble. 13 Take fast hold of instruction; let her not go: keep her; for she is thy life. 14 Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men. 15 Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away. 16 For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall. 17 For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence.

  • (The bread of wickedness contains the leaven of hypocrisy. {Luke 12:1} This is the opposite of the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth [ICo 5:7-8]. and the milk of the word [1Pe 2:2] of Alahayim which is truth. [Jhn 17:17] that we may grow in the faith and be sanctified by through genuinely doing the work and speaking according to the truth as servants of the Lord keeping ourselves from iniquity that we may be worthy of the name of Christ that we call upon. [2Tim 2:19]

 

Pro 4:18

But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.

  • As we work, the light of the law will shine more and more in us as we grow in good works unto perfection because we are doing the things we are instructed to do out of the law in our life:

Pro 6:23 

For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the  way of life

  • On the other hand, we are warned to keep ourselves from the way of darkness in the laws of the devil through the lusts of the flesh that oppose and work against the laws of Alahayim;

Pro 4:19-22

The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble. 20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. 21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart 2For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.

  • Keeping the words of Alahayim in our perspective and heart to do them will help our health as well

Joh 6:63

It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.

Pro 4:23-27

Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life 24 Put away from thee a forward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee 25 Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee. 26  Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established. 27 Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.

  • ​Keeping our heart to make sure we only let good thoughts and actions into it to act upon and not giving ourselves over to any evil by turning away from the actions or thoughts will please our Lord Yache because we are keeping his commandments;

Acts of John 14

He then, through me, exhorts you: Brethren, I wish to remain without grief, without insult, without treachery, without punishment. For He also knows insult from you, He knows also dishonour, He knows also treachery, He knows also punishment from those that disobey His commandments. Let not therefore our Alahayim be grieved, the good, the compassionate, the merciful, the holy, the pure, the undefiled, the only, the one, the
immutable, the sincere, the guileless, the slow to anger, He that is higher and more exalted than every name that we speak or think of — our Alahayim, Yache Christ. Let Him rejoice along with us because we conduct ourselves well; let Him be glad because we live in purity; let Him rest because we behave reverently; let Him be pleased because we live in fellowship; let Him smile because we are sober-minded; let Him be delighted because we love. These things, brethren, I communicate to you, pressing on to the work set before me, already perfected for me by the Lord.

Sons

Pro 20:11

Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.

Pro 15:20

A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother.

Pro 17:25

A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.

Sir 22:3

An evil nurtured son is the dishonor of his father that begat him: and a daughter is borne to his loss.

Pro 19:26

He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach

Pro 30:17

The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.

Pro 13:1

A wise son heareth his father's instruction: but a scorner heareth not rebuke.

Pro 28:7

Whoso keepeth the law is a wise son: but he that is a companion of riotous men shameth his father.

Pro 17:2

A wise servant shall have rule over a son that causeth shame, and shall have part of the inheritance among the brethren.​

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Daughters

Sir 22:4, 5, 3

A wise daughter shall bring an inheritance to her husband: but she that liveth dishonestly, is her father’s

heaviness. Shee that is bold, dishonoureth both her father and her husband, but they both shall despise her. An evil nurtured son is the dishonor of his father that begat him: and a daughter is borne to his loss.

Jubilees 30:8

8. And let not an adulteress and no uncleanness be found in Israel throughout all the days of the generations of the earth; for Israel is holy unto Ahayah, and every man who hath defiled (it) shall surely die: they shall stone him with stones.

  • An example of a wise daughter unto her father in her youth and husband in her adulthood;

4Macc 18:4

4. Now these are the words that the mother of the seven sons, the righteous woman, spake to her children: 'I was a pure maiden, and I strayed not from my father's house, and I kept guard over the rib that was builded into Eve. 5. No seducer of the desert, no deceiver in the field, corrupted me; nor did the false, beguiling Serpent sully the purity of my maidenhood; 6. I lived with my husband all the days of my youth;

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 Guard Your Virginity

Polycarp to the Philippians 5:1, 3

1 Knowing then that Alahayim is not mocked, we ought to walk worthily of His

commandment and His glory. 3...The virgins must walk in a blameless and pure conscience.

I Cor 7:34

....The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit. 

  • Keeping oneself pure avoiding fornication in spirit (idolatry) and the acts of fornication itself is what the daughters of the faith do to avoid giving any heed to the serpent who would lead them unto punishments. The punishments a daughter would end up in for not guarding herself can be as follows:

Apocalypse of Paul chapter 39

39. And I saw there girls having black raiment, and four terrible angels having in their hands burning chains, and they put them on the necks of the girls and led them into darkness: and I, again weeping, asked the angel: Who are these, Sir? And he said to me: These are they who, when they were virgins, defiled their virginity unknown to their parents; for which cause they unceasingly pay the proper penalties.​

Apocalypse of Peter chapter 11

The daughters that did not keep their virginity until they were given in marriage.

Apocalypse of Peter chapter 11

Beside them shall be girls clad in darkness for a garment and they shall be sore chastised and their flesh shall be torn in pieces. These are they that kept not their virginity until they were given in marriage, and with these torments shall they be punished, and shall feel them.

The daughters that had conceived out of wedlock and caused abortions.

26 And hard by that place I saw another strait place wherein the discharge and the stench of them that were in torment ran down, and there was as it were a lake there. And there sat women up to their necks in that liquor, and over against them many children which were born out of due time sat crying: and from them went forth rays of fire and smote the women in the eyes: and these were they that conceived out of wedlock (?) and caused abortion

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  • Remember, your parents gently instruct you as brethren in the faith of Christ for your benefit in the end. Stay encouraged to please Ahayah, Lord Yache, and your parents through good works in all righteousness, goodness and truth.

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Pro 3:12

For whom Ahayah loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth

Heb 12:6-11

For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. If ye endure chastening, Alahayim dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. 9 Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? 10 For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. 11 Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

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